Parenting the Teenagers

Teenage is the most fascinating period in life during which considerable biological, cognitive, moral as well as social development occurs. It is a period of heightened emotionality and it is also considered as a period of stress and storm.

Parents have great responsibility in supporting teenagers in making an easy transition from a dependent child to an independent successful adult.

Ensure an environment of appreciation, love and understanding at home.

Share mutually enjoyable activities.

Be firm but empathetic with teenagers.

Remain always connected with adolescents by maintaining good communicating skills.

Set reasonable limits as well as clear and mutually acceptable rules.

Infuse hope trust and confidence in teenagers.

Monitor the peer group of teenagers without being too intrusive. Allow some privacy and promote talents.

Do not be authoritarian, do not be too much permissive.

Do not criticize unnecessarily, don’t be overambitious and avoid undue comparisons.

When conflicts arise: listen and discuss the problems, use appropriate problem solving strategies, identify the best solution and implement it.

Get professional help from experts in child guidance, when: deterioration of scholastic performance occurs, emotional or behavioral problems occurs, and there is inability to concentrate in studies.

Parents have a major role in the personality development of teenagers. Through proper parenting techniques, we can make adolescence the most beautiful and enjoyable period in life. We can also guide them towards a successful and happy adulthood.